The Complete Guide to Transform into an Alpha male
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The Complete Guide to Transform into an Alpha male- With myths, characteristics and traits
Whenever we associate this word "alpha" with humans, especially men, we start thinking about a person who enjoys superiority of social hierarchy over other people, whom we call beta males. One can easily find lots of Alpha male articles, guides, books and videos telling about how to become an alpha, the great deal of advantages of becoming the one and by reading, we picture ourselves at the top of our social hierarchy. This Alpha status is, however totally different from the one we fascinate ourselves about. There are lots of myths associated with this topic, and the most common fascination that people make with the Alpha status is an attractive personality and body language of them which would be just a perfect figure of themselves check-marking all their present bonds, desires and dreams altogether. This has, in reality nothing to do with being a true alpha.
Being An Alpha male: The Biological definition
The biological definition of an Alpha is related to the study of social animals in animal kingdom. According to this,
"An Alpha male is the most dominant individual in his race, or group. He/she is the highest ranked individual in terms of power and gets the most in terms of resources than other animals in the group."
We can observe that the biological definition is related with aggression and dominance, and this definition can be applied in the case of all the social animal kingdoms in animal kingdom, except human beings, as we have evolved way far from other animals.
What we see ourselves as Alpha is someone who has achieved domination over maleness, has a golden personality that attracts anyone, can have relationship with anyone he desires and be the best version of themselves. Nowadays, the most common thing that you will observe while hovering over this topic is that people are damn insecure about themselves, that is instead of being satisfied with themselves, they are unhappy with themselves and their personality, and the insecurity comes by watching all the fascination and fake body and personality standards in the internet, that is sold to us just for the sake of profit. Let's look at some of the common myths associated with being Alpha male:
Being an Alpha:Myths of Alpha males
1. Whenever you see an article or a video that is related to alpha male status, or something like that, you consider it a great deal, and you look at how to achieve that deal. By doing this, you consider your current self as something that is way far below your Alpha personality, in terms of social status, job, relationships, house, bodybuilding, confidence level or whatever it may be. By doing this, you become unsatisfied with your present self. But, this Alpha status has nothing to do with your lifestyle, or hard-work in reality. Being an Alpha is not a destination, it is rather about mindset.
2. Alpha male is a leader. Wherever he goes, he simply lead the situation and everybody listens to him, he has programmed his mind and has mastered all the leadership skills. The people whom we consider beta look towards him as an ideal person. This is another myth related to the topic.
3. He encounters no problems in his life. There is just one single word that can describe him- he is awesome. He is a natural leader, everyone appreciates him and he has no problems in his life. The biggest myth.
4. He is the most attractive deal. This whole terminology sounds like the alpha male has lot's of bonuses in his life, as compared to a normal being. He is the most attractive and ideal example of masculinity.
5. There is no struggle in the life of an Alpha male. He can have anything in his life without any struggle, cause he's Alpha. This is the biggest bullshit. The reason is that in this world, whoever might we take who is on the top of his field, weather is is some player, artist, musician, entrepreneur, billionaires and millionaires, every single person has faced a lot of struggle and hard work in his life to achieve his target, and the struggle doesn't end there. He/She has to work marvelously harder to continuously maintain his top position. Now, Alpha male is something we associate with personality characteristics, and personality characteristics has nothing to do with talent and hard work! Read out any person's story, for example whose talent is out of the world level, and you will realize that they had lots of struggles in their life.
2. Alpha male is a leader. Wherever he goes, he simply lead the situation and everybody listens to him, he has programmed his mind and has mastered all the leadership skills. The people whom we consider beta look towards him as an ideal person. This is another myth related to the topic.
3. He encounters no problems in his life. There is just one single word that can describe him- he is awesome. He is a natural leader, everyone appreciates him and he has no problems in his life. The biggest myth.
4. He is the most attractive deal. This whole terminology sounds like the alpha male has lot's of bonuses in his life, as compared to a normal being. He is the most attractive and ideal example of masculinity.
5. There is no struggle in the life of an Alpha male. He can have anything in his life without any struggle, cause he's Alpha. This is the biggest bullshit. The reason is that in this world, whoever might we take who is on the top of his field, weather is is some player, artist, musician, entrepreneur, billionaires and millionaires, every single person has faced a lot of struggle and hard work in his life to achieve his target, and the struggle doesn't end there. He/She has to work marvelously harder to continuously maintain his top position. Now, Alpha male is something we associate with personality characteristics, and personality characteristics has nothing to do with talent and hard work! Read out any person's story, for example whose talent is out of the world level, and you will realize that they had lots of struggles in their life.
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A Realistic approach towards being Alpha
Before understanding about what Alpha male really means in real life, we have to understand the 3 types of men, their psychology and behavior that are in our present world. Let us look at all the types:
1. The Protector(The masculine behavior)
This one is the sort of person who can protect him and his family in fighting situations, is a little aggressive, and possess dominant personality. He is a warrior who is ready to fight with anyone when it comes to family,resources and survival. He has the power to practice the traits of dominance and protecting his family wherever needed.
2. The provider(The feminism behavior)
The provider is the sort of person who possess submissive attitude, wants to emotionally take care of his family or people, and prioritize his family's demands and prosperity over his comforts.
3. The pro-creator
This one is the sort of person who is powerful enough to practice both the traits of provider and protector, or in simple words this person can dominate and take care of his family whenever needed, and at the same time and emotionally keep his family in the state of well being. This type of person knows how to act in the right time, and can obtain maximum for him and his family whenever the situation demands. He can master both the abilities of protector and provider. This requires lots of self endurance, self-building and self-sacrifice.
It could be clearly felt and understood that being a pro-creator is what required from any person who wants to make his and his family's life happy, secure and prosper. It can also be understood that being a pro-creator requires a mindset that is hard to achieve, you would have to work on your personality, the way you talk with your family and friends, and the way you behave when the situation demands greater from you. This is how you can be a true Alpha male!
After understanding the basics of being Alpha, lets dive deeper into developing right qualities. Let's get started.
1. The Protector(The masculine behavior)
This one is the sort of person who can protect him and his family in fighting situations, is a little aggressive, and possess dominant personality. He is a warrior who is ready to fight with anyone when it comes to family,resources and survival. He has the power to practice the traits of dominance and protecting his family wherever needed.
2. The provider(The feminism behavior)
The provider is the sort of person who possess submissive attitude, wants to emotionally take care of his family or people, and prioritize his family's demands and prosperity over his comforts.
3. The pro-creator
This one is the sort of person who is powerful enough to practice both the traits of provider and protector, or in simple words this person can dominate and take care of his family whenever needed, and at the same time and emotionally keep his family in the state of well being. This type of person knows how to act in the right time, and can obtain maximum for him and his family whenever the situation demands. He can master both the abilities of protector and provider. This requires lots of self endurance, self-building and self-sacrifice.
It could be clearly felt and understood that being a pro-creator is what required from any person who wants to make his and his family's life happy, secure and prosper. It can also be understood that being a pro-creator requires a mindset that is hard to achieve, you would have to work on your personality, the way you talk with your family and friends, and the way you behave when the situation demands greater from you. This is how you can be a true Alpha male!
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After understanding the basics of being Alpha, lets dive deeper into developing right qualities. Let's get started.
1. Building the right personality
We should light onto personality development first. Do you know that there is actually a Mantra of developing a magnetic personality? It is:
"Be tough on yourself, or make toughness your habit"
Here, being tough doesn't mean any type of physical stress or strain on your body, but it necessarily mean getting out of your comfort zone and doing things that might get you to throw fits and make you repel. For example, consider studying as your work. Can you remember how many times it happened with you that you started creating ideas in your mind on how to avoid studies when it was the time to do so? It was simply because studies is tough. Therefore, if you are an "easy guy" living with the idea that some day a magic will happen and you will change yourself altogether, you can be anything, but not an Alpha.
The very basis of personality development is being comfortable with yourself, and that will happen only when your mind will recognize that you are taking actions regarding your personal evolution. Do you know why most successful people in the world are that confident? It is because that are taking steps in the right directions, towards their personal progress. Progress is not only essential for survival, but it also makes you recognized and wanted commodity in the society. So, start taking right actions. Go to gym even if you hate it, do exercises that make you cry like hell, work for your life like it is the most precious to you, and soon you will find yourself more comfortable, dominating and easy with yourself ( that is, not trying to become like someone else) in public places.
2. Taking care of yourself
After taking the steps towards building the right type of personality of yours, the next thing you are required to do is to take care of yourself. For instance,we all know that to be great in health, we have to avoid fast food as much as we can. But how many people actually are able to do that? The answer is very few. And all those people who can't give off their habits, their mind recognizes their behavior, and starts sending them unpleasant signals after are done with their addictions. This not only applies to fast food, but applies to all types of addictions. Since the very basis of being Alpha is being tough, you have to give off your addictions, since no real alpha is stuck in the addictions. They know when to use it in showing off their best. Some common things to consider are:
- Selecting clothes that suit your personality type
- Cleaning and Shaving yourself regularly, at fixed intervals.
- Taking care of your hygiene, because the truth is people are impressionable, and a clean and hygienic man gives a great impression, and attracts more people than an unhygienic person.
These simple steps will make you stand out of the crowd and make you look much smart and great, just like a real Alpha male is in the real life.
These steps are enough to transform you into an Alpha male, more confident, both defending and dominating, and attractive personality whom everyone appreciates. Now, you might say that there is nothing told about being more dominant. The answer is- dominance is not a trait, it is an effect, of right directions. When you know what you are progressing towards your goals daily, and that you will achieve whatever it is some day makes you more confident and daring in the middle of the crowd. Since dominance is associated with your hormones, it is natural for you and you as well know when to show it, you are already showing your dominance where it is necessary. It is nothing to learn about for that. You just need more courage and fighting spirit, that being an Alpha will deliver you and people will look upon you as an example of a perfect Alpha male.
Q & A
1. Do Alpha males and Females really exist?
Ans.- Yes, they actually exist, however, the way we look towards alpha is not correct. Being alpha will increase your thinking and personal abilities, and has nothing to do with your current dominance, your lifestyle and such false things promoted in social media for self promotion.
2. Do alpha males have more testosterone?
Ans.- Being alpha will give you an excellent mindset, but has nothing to do with testosterone level. It is another false self promotion tactic.
3. Are alpha males born or made?
Ans.- If the parents have more dominance and aggression in their DNA, it would be likely that the born life will be more dominant. But traits of alpha could also be acquired after being born.
3. What are common traits of an alpha?
Ans. Some of the traits of being an alpha is confidence, not being brainwashed easily, being self worthy, always looking after who looks upon him, and being able to dominate where there is a necessity.
4. Are Alpha males rare?
Ans. The exact percentage of Alpha males in our civilization is tough to calculate, however, out of 100 people grouped together, it is expected that about 20 people will have more dominance and confidence than the rest.
5. Do Alpha males give compliments?
Ans. Yes, Alpha males often praise what is praiseworthy. Giving compliments is important to uplift someone's confidence and abilities, and Alpha males don't regret in making someone better, in fact, they always look for making others better too.
6. Do Alpha males get Jealous?
Ans. Jealousy is a natural emotion that comes out when people find someone being better than them. Being an alpha, you know what your goals are, where you need to reach. So, jealousy has no grounds for an Alpha's mind.
The Complete Guide to Transform into an Alpha male
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